Its been quite few event that happened since last posting. Life's bigger suspense revealed in the month of December 2011. Thing's happened so fast, that realization of happening itself took days. Its almost 5 month since my marriage, when i look back, i cannot believe that things happened before realized.
Its in November 2011, one fine day, when daddy and myself was relaxing after coming back from a long walk, a call to daddy asking about the match from bhimavaram from kalavapudi thathaya.It was the same match which daddy was tring for the last few years. Frankly speaking i was never confident that would turn positive, usually daddy gets these kind of call 3 to 4 every week.Since the last call, life was as usual, no good new, its all hope.
Its December 2011, a lunar eclipse day, its almost near to Sunset, i was at home, was watching a movie in TV. Call from a Stranger, which is also common to me regarding matches, but then i never thought that this Stranger would turn into relation ;). I agreed to meet him last in the evening around 6:30. I am very uncomfortable to meet, i walk to gandhi statue to meet, we had quite a few call to tell the directions. I was very uneasy to meet, finally, the bike came with two strangers, who is now my bother-in-law, and father-in-law. It was a very formal conversation, details about myself and family.
Its quite for few more days, another call from the same guys willing to meet each other families,
finally the date was finalized, its first saturday dhanurmasam Dec 17th 2011.
Its finally the big day, Dec 17th, as usual i wore the same attire that is used for all matches, yellow shirt and black pant. The venue is Venkateswara Swamy temple (Temple Street, Kukatpally). I call Ram to get the address details. We all three, amma, daddy and myself started in Swift, stopped few places to get the address, and parked car inside the temple.
Uneasiness and discomfort persists, I had no clue how to find them and what to speak when we meet. My eyes was search for them, finally i see, now my father-in-law, waving his hand. There is a huge line to get into the temple.Washed my legs and stood in line, i was still hesitant to see the girl, so i kept my head low and stayed close to my parents.
Finally when i was climbing stairs to geting into the temple i saw the love of my life. She is tall, with long hair, waring a sober dress and stayed close to her mother. First impression was that she is very innocent and fully family type.To tell fact, i have no feeling when i saw her first. I was expecting her in a saree with layers of makeup. She impressed me with her simplicity.
After taking the blessing of God finally both the families meet each other. Daddy and myself search around to find some private space to meet. Its took 5 mins to find the place, ultimately we found a place betten two huts, with a mat. Its was very quite for few minutes before daddy and mavaya started speaking. As usual, i was still hesitant, hide behind my daddy. After few minutes they left us both privately, its when my struggle started.
My pressure in pants started, but she looked more composed. I didn't know where to start, told the answer to routine interview question, "tell me something about yourself". Finally she spoke out,
her voice was too low, i had to pay extra attention to hear her. That's when i saw her closely, all looks good, but something on her was really right(i didn't realize it was the tooth cap which is odd in color). She replied back about her details.
That's all the silence persisted again. The situation was very analogues to dialog from athadu movie "silence antha violent ga vundho". I was very inconvenient, so i asked if she had any question to ask otherwise we can leave. She replied back very diplomatically "its your wish". :). Silence persisted again. Stayed for few more minute before i moved back to meet my father.
When i moved back to my father, they had a very decent conversation going. I joined there but didn't involve much, i was watching my love, waiting alone for her mother. But my confidence level went up, i see some comfort between both families. She when to meet her mother. Both family came together for general discussion for few more minutes.
All set to depart, everybody started walking towards gate. I have no opinion until then, but i see a great comfort between the families. My mother was very comfortable with Athaya. Daddy was have a good conversation with Mavaya. I decided to stay ok for the match. I accepted once i come back to home, they finally accepted two days after we met. Thats when the journey started ;)
--- to be continues..watch for next episode.
Its in November 2011, one fine day, when daddy and myself was relaxing after coming back from a long walk, a call to daddy asking about the match from bhimavaram from kalavapudi thathaya.It was the same match which daddy was tring for the last few years. Frankly speaking i was never confident that would turn positive, usually daddy gets these kind of call 3 to 4 every week.Since the last call, life was as usual, no good new, its all hope.
Its December 2011, a lunar eclipse day, its almost near to Sunset, i was at home, was watching a movie in TV. Call from a Stranger, which is also common to me regarding matches, but then i never thought that this Stranger would turn into relation ;). I agreed to meet him last in the evening around 6:30. I am very uncomfortable to meet, i walk to gandhi statue to meet, we had quite a few call to tell the directions. I was very uneasy to meet, finally, the bike came with two strangers, who is now my bother-in-law, and father-in-law. It was a very formal conversation, details about myself and family.
Its quite for few more days, another call from the same guys willing to meet each other families,
finally the date was finalized, its first saturday dhanurmasam Dec 17th 2011.
Its finally the big day, Dec 17th, as usual i wore the same attire that is used for all matches, yellow shirt and black pant. The venue is Venkateswara Swamy temple (Temple Street, Kukatpally). I call Ram to get the address details. We all three, amma, daddy and myself started in Swift, stopped few places to get the address, and parked car inside the temple.
Uneasiness and discomfort persists, I had no clue how to find them and what to speak when we meet. My eyes was search for them, finally i see, now my father-in-law, waving his hand. There is a huge line to get into the temple.Washed my legs and stood in line, i was still hesitant to see the girl, so i kept my head low and stayed close to my parents.
Finally when i was climbing stairs to geting into the temple i saw the love of my life. She is tall, with long hair, waring a sober dress and stayed close to her mother. First impression was that she is very innocent and fully family type.To tell fact, i have no feeling when i saw her first. I was expecting her in a saree with layers of makeup. She impressed me with her simplicity.
After taking the blessing of God finally both the families meet each other. Daddy and myself search around to find some private space to meet. Its took 5 mins to find the place, ultimately we found a place betten two huts, with a mat. Its was very quite for few minutes before daddy and mavaya started speaking. As usual, i was still hesitant, hide behind my daddy. After few minutes they left us both privately, its when my struggle started.
My pressure in pants started, but she looked more composed. I didn't know where to start, told the answer to routine interview question, "tell me something about yourself". Finally she spoke out,
her voice was too low, i had to pay extra attention to hear her. That's when i saw her closely, all looks good, but something on her was really right(i didn't realize it was the tooth cap which is odd in color). She replied back about her details.
That's all the silence persisted again. The situation was very analogues to dialog from athadu movie "silence antha violent ga vundho". I was very inconvenient, so i asked if she had any question to ask otherwise we can leave. She replied back very diplomatically "its your wish". :). Silence persisted again. Stayed for few more minute before i moved back to meet my father.
When i moved back to my father, they had a very decent conversation going. I joined there but didn't involve much, i was watching my love, waiting alone for her mother. But my confidence level went up, i see some comfort between both families. She when to meet her mother. Both family came together for general discussion for few more minutes.
All set to depart, everybody started walking towards gate. I have no opinion until then, but i see a great comfort between the families. My mother was very comfortable with Athaya. Daddy was have a good conversation with Mavaya. I decided to stay ok for the match. I accepted once i come back to home, they finally accepted two days after we met. Thats when the journey started ;)
--- to be continues..watch for next episode.
